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38 | If I Speak Up, Won’t I Be Disrespecting Him Or Failing To Submit? 5 Communication Tips For Biblical Wives (Even If You Disagree With Him)

38 | If I Speak Up, Won’t I Be Disrespecting Him Or Failing To Submit? 5 Communication Tips For Biblical Wives (Even If You Disagree With Him)

Update: 2025-06-19
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Am I being disrespectful when I disagree with him? Is speaking up unbiblical? What does submission actually look like in a healthy, Christ-centered marriage?



This episode is for YOU. We’re busting the myth that submission equals silence — and leaning into what Scripture actually says about communication and being a biblical wife.



👑 Inside this episode:

- The surprising root of combativeness in marriage (and how Micaiah overcame it)

- The real meaning of a quiet and gentle spirit (spoiler: it’s not about being silent or small)

- Why your tone matters more than your words — and how to practice a respectful one

- How to check your heart posture before you speak 3 biblical examples of godly confrontation (Abigail, Esther, and even Jesus!)

- 5 practical communication tips to speak up with love (even about hard things)



💡 You’ll walk away knowing:



  • How to honor God without losing your voice

  • Why submission doesn’t mean shrinking

  • What the Bible actually says about wives speaking truth in love 🎯


 


 


Resources & Links Mentioned:

- Book a free marriage coaching session (for both spouses)


- Book a free biblical wife coaching session (with Micaiah & you)


- Download the free guide for wives 


 




Scriptures for further study:

• Ephesians 5:22 –24

• 1 Peter 3:1–4

• Proverbs 27:6, 12:4, 31:10 –12, 21:9

• 1 Samuel 25 (Abigail)

• Matthew 16:23 (Jesus & Peter)

• Book of Esther Mentioned

Book: Love & Respect by Dr. Emerson Eggerichs


 




❤️ Ready to take the next right step in your marriage? I’d love to help you get personal clarity on how to walk this out in your home. Book a free marriage coaching call — limited spots available! If this episode encouraged you, would you take 30 seconds to leave a review? Or share this with a friend who needs it? It helps more than you know.

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38 | If I Speak Up, Won’t I Be Disrespecting Him Or Failing To Submit? 5 Communication Tips For Biblical Wives (Even If You Disagree With Him)

38 | If I Speak Up, Won’t I Be Disrespecting Him Or Failing To Submit? 5 Communication Tips For Biblical Wives (Even If You Disagree With Him)

Micaiah Gray | Christian Marriage Coach, Marriage Counseling and Marriage Therapy Alternative, Christian Wife Coach, Relationship Coach